A bus has one destination but has several stops. Every one could enter the same bus, but are not going to the same destination. Nobody tells you when to stop, you decide which is your stop and then you come down.
In life there are stops, if you don't decide which is your stop and get off it keeps moving.
You decide when to stop, move, act, live because the ball is in your court.
Are you waiting on someone to tell you when to act?