He who finds part 2

Your single years ladies are not for complaining or being sad. Thinking that you're not good enough or no one is meant for you. Use those years to build on yourself, get to know who you are, get to know what your deal breakers are, get to know God more intimately, worship him with your life, be the woman that he created you to be, break the chains and discover your purpose. How do you become the woman God created you to be? by working on yourself everyday and spending time with the lord. You have to be responsible for yourself, and make sure you get to be what God wants you to be. You are not defined by a man , you are defined by what God says you are. Be whole, God will provide exactly who is meant for you when the timing is right. Ecclesiastes 3:1 there is a time and season for everything under the heavens. He also makes everything beautiful at his own time.

Focus on yourselves. If you look at proverbs 18:22 it says he that finds a wife finds a good thing. He will come and find you, stop searching and wasting all that energy, instead put that energy on your vision, your goals and what God wants for you. Deal with those chains. So many women are going through many issues that you need to find solutions to on your own, and not with another person pushing them into those issues. Issues like jealousy, anger,  sin, pain, loneliness and many more. You cant carry all those and he will find favour. It says a man that finds a wife finds a "good thing". Work to be that good thing not only for marriage but for yourself. Many want it now, but don't want to work on being whole and being with God. You don't get paid for a job you did not do. 

So my ladies, single years is not for looking its for preparing you for where you are going to be, being whole, developing that relationship with God, breaking the chains of the devil and intimately walking in his power and then he will find you. 

It says "He who finds a wife finds a good thing" - It didn't say "She who finds a husband or looks for one". 

Continue to look up to God, I promise it will be worth it. It might not seem easy but with God all things are possible.

L.S